Showing posts with label THOUGHTS. Show all posts
Showing posts with label THOUGHTS. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

A Travel First...

Friday is a huge day for me. It will my very first flying experience on Southwest. Yes, I have flown thousands of miles over the last decade, but never on Southwest. I haven't been avoiding the airline, it was never an option. My home airport used the be Des Moines, and it is not a Southwest city. But since my move to Oklahoma, I am firmly in Southwest territory. In my 11 months here I haven't seen a flight price that makes it logical for me to fly on the famous airline, until this weekend

We are going to San Diego to a wedding of a childhood friend. I scored $180.00 roundtrip fares and looking forward to the trip. I heart San Diego.

Keep it classy San Diego!



Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Paul Henry is the BEST!

Paul Henry is the reason I miss living in New Zealand...

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TVNZ is backing its controversial presenter Paul Henry despite his bizarre suggestion that one way of stopping the boisterous antics of Mahia Peninsula dolphin Moko would be to shoot the mammal.

The comment came during Breakfast yesterday and has made waves not only in the northern Hawke's Bay, the waters of which Moko has made home for almost 2 years but also among those charged with protecting marine wildlife.

TVNZ spokeswoman Andi Brotherston, confirming no "official" complaints had been received, said the comment had to be taken in the context of the programme and of Henry "having fun".

She said it wasn't a serious suggestion from the Breakfast host, who has previously voiced support for dolphins at Marineland, and who regards Hawke's Bay as a "second home". He reportedly enjoys watching dolphins from his beach house north of Napier.

Napier-based DoC area manager Jan Hania said Henry's comments were "highly inappropriate ... but, I'm sure, were tongue-in-cheek," and anyone causing any harm to Moko would be liable to prosecution.

One Mahia resident said today: "Everyone's unhappy about Paul Henry ... but they just think he's a bloody idiot.

" I think the locals are quite possessive about Moko, and Paul Henry just opens his mouth without thinking first."

Peninsula resident Maria Preddey, who once had to wait in a kayak while Moko stopped her from getting back to shore, did not see the programme, but quickly learned of the comment from neighbours.

It didn't surprise her, and she said today: "That's just Paul Henry. I think it's just a very provocative thing to say."

She doesn't agree with his utterance but says any publicity about Moko's behaviour helps people understand the position of the dolphin and how it should be respected in the environment.

If people weren't happy with Moko being at the beach they could just "steer clear", advice she said kayakers in particular should heed.

She watched a TV3 Campbell Live segment last night and said it was "probably the most accurate" look at the issue.

Henry is one of television's more controversial presenters, but Ms Brotherston said that was part of his appeal.

Henry had at least as many fans as he did detractors, and he had won a TV Guide popularity vote.

His Breakfast antics have prompted at least 14 complaints to the Broadcasting Standards Authority in his four years on the show. Ten were in the past 18 months.

The only one to be upheld related to his reiteration of reader comments that female guest and Greenpeace worker Stephanie Mills, had a moustache.

While co-host Alison Mau pleaded with him to stop, he commented at that time: "That was a moustache on a lady. People can say what they see, it's television isn't it?"

Mau later read a letter from a woman who talked about the medical causes of female facial hair and said she had been reduced to tears by Henry's comments. But he responded: "Start a group, really."

Recently Henry said he didn't know why complaints against him were on the up but said it didn't bother him. "I think it's an indication that I say what I think and in television that is not overly common."

He thought there were "a lot of people that don't have much of a sense of humour" and "a large number of people who have nothing better to do than complain".

- HAWKE'S BAY TODAY

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

The New Tattoo!

Here are the pictures of my new tattoo I received on my final day in New Zealand. It turned out much better than I expected. Thank You to Geoff and Murray for going to the shop with me. Also, a huge THANK YOU to the tattoo artist that did it. Finally, THANK YOU to my mate Jeff for getting the sketches of the symbol from his grandfather.

What it is is of course New Zealand with the Maori symbol for Aotearoa in the middle. Aotearoa in Maori means "land of the long white cloud," which is what Maori call New Zealand.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

AWE...Good Bye Bea Arthur...

Golden Girls star Bea Arthur dies at 86

April 26, 2009 - 9:26AM

A family spokesman for Bea Arthur says the star of TV's Maude and The Golden Girls has died aged 86.

Spokesman Dan Watt said Arthur died at home early on Saturday. He said she had cancer, but he declined to give further details.

The tall, deep-voiced actress won a Tony Award for the musical Mame and Emmy Awards for The Golden Girls and Maude. Arthur's razor-sharp delivery of comedy lines helped make the TV comedies hits and turned the veteran stage and film actress into a popular TV star.

Arthur first appeared as the character Maude in the 1970s landmark comedy series All in the Family, making guest appearances as the loudly outspoken, liberal in-law of blue-collar bigot Archie Bunker (Carroll O'Connor).


AP

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Saturday, August 23, 2008

John Mayhew

On Thursday, August 21, 2008 my Great Uncle John Mayhew passed away after a dignified and courageous battle with cancer. He was 66 years old.

John was the youngest child of Rex and Berenice Mayhew and leaves behind to mourn three siblings, James Mayhew, Joyce Turpen, and Mary Durfey. John worked for many years in coal mines across southern Indiana. After his departure from the coal mines he became a barber.

John was extremely close to his two children and beloved wife Carolyn.

I didn't know John as well as I would have liked. We usually saw him on a yearly basis when they came back to Iowa for a family reunion or gathering. He always had a great smile on his face and loved a good laugh.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Fortune - Fake Living the Good Life...

For years I have told people if someone has a lot of 'stuff' and are living a 'great' life they are probably doing so on credit. Well, my intuition might be correct as determined by the following article from Fortune Magazine.

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The next credit crunch
Our easy access to plastic is about to dry up - and with it our ability to fake living the good life.
By Geoff Colvin, senior editor at large

(Fortune Magazine) -- We made it through the bursting of the Internet bubble and now the bursting of the real estate bubble. Next we may be approaching the end of the most worrisome bubble of all: the standard-of-living bubble.

That conclusion comes from the latest data on credit card debt. It's growing fast, but the problem is bigger than that - and to understand what it means, we have to take a few steps back.

For the past several years, the average inflation-adjusted total pay of American workers hasn't been increasing. That means we haven't been building a foundation for increases in our living standard. You might be tempted to say that by definition our living standard couldn't have increased, but that's not quite right. Even with stagnant real incomes, we can always live a little better every year through borrowing and pretending that our living standard is still rising, just as it was for decades.

So the Great Bull Market made us feel rich, and we felt justified in saving less and borrowing - and spending - more.

After stocks collapsed, home prices took off, making us feel rich all over again. So we continued saving less and spending more, creating the illusion that our living standard was still rising. In 2005 our personal savings rate went negative, but even that didn't slow us down, because our homes were still appreciating - and rising home values meant that household net worths weren't declining. (Don't be fooled by that saving-rate spike in this year's second quarter; it was probably a one-time event resulting from the federal stimulus payments.)

Of course, we don't hear those assurances anymore. Stocks are back where they were eight years ago, and home prices are where they were five years ago. But personal debt is much higher than ever before, and average pay is still going nowhere in real terms. So now how do we live as if our living standard is still rising?
End of easy money

That's where the credit card reports come in. Last year, just as the subprime crisis happened, credit card debt took off. The home-equity ATM had been shut down, so people turned to the last source of easy money they had left, the most expensive debt on the menu, credit card borrowing.

Since credit card debt has been growing much faster than the economy - more than 8% in last year's third and fourth quarters and over 7% in May (the most recent month reported)- people are apparently using it as a substitute for income. Thus, for the past year or so we have still maintained the standard-of-living illusion.

But a big crunch is coming - and here's why. Credit card debt, like mortgage debt, gets bundled, securitized, and sold off by banks. Citigroup (C, Fortune 500), one of America's largest credit card lenders, just reported that it lost $176 million in the second quarter through securitizing such debt. That happens when the buyers of those securities observe rising delinquency rates and rising interest rates, and decide the debt is worth less than Citi thought. More generally, the amount of credit card debt that is securitized nationwide has plunged by more than half in the past five months because it's getting riskier. That means credit card issuers will be charging customers higher interest rates, and since the banks can't offload as much of the debt as before, they'll have less money to lend to cardholders.

The squeeze has already started, which is why Congress is in the process of passing the Credit Cardholders' Bill of Rights, which would prevent issuers from changing rates and terms without warning, among many other provisions. But bottom line, the credit card money window is going to start closing - and soon.

So now what? It's hard to see where consumers can turn next. Home prices seem highly unlikely to start rising again soon. Stocks? You never know, but the Great Bull Market looks like a once-in-a-lifetime event. Homes and stocks are households' biggest asset classes by far. There isn't much else to borrow against.

It may be that the standard-of-living bubble finally has to deflate. Sustainable increases in living standards have to be earned, not borrowed, and that means performing ever higher value work that can't be outsourced. We haven't been meeting that challenge very well; doing so will probably require much more and better education for millions of Americans, which takes time and money.

The result may feel like deprivation, but I don't see it that way. Who knows - we might even find that living within our means and saving a little money actually isn't so bad.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

101 Years Ago

On this date 101 years ago someone very special was born. She was a woman that adored her family. She loved to travel to new places. She cherished music, especially the piano. On August 17th, 1907 my Great Grandmother Berenice Kimm Mayhew Kanke was born. She grew up as an only child and married Rex Mayhew to which four children were born. James, Joyce, Mary, and John had great childhoods living in Blairstown, Iowa. Unfortunately, she lost her beloved husband Rex suddenly in 1952. After his death, she became a teacher in several districts. She later married Ronald Kanke, whom passed in 1981.

She love politics and was a proud Democrat. She lobbied for the creation of the community college system and constantly encouraged her grand and great grandchildren to always learn.

She passed away in the early morning of February 21, 2001. This day was one of my most memorable. I was in college in Dubuque, and our family kept my cousin (also studying at Loras) and I informed on her health, as it had been deteriorating over the previous month. When I got the call around 5:30 a.m. that morning I looked outside and a very gentle snow had started to fall. I knew she was back with her parents, great-grandpa Rex, the other relatives she had lost, and God.

Her memorial service was scheduled on March 1, 2001. I was to be on my way to Spain for a spring break trip, so I decided to not cancel the trip. She wouldn't have approved of me missing a grand trip like that, and it brilliant.

"Grandma B" has been one of the biggest influences on my life. During November of 2001 I gave a speech on Family Day at Loras College about her enormous impact on my life. She showed me how intellectual growth fueled a fulfilling life. She showed me how wrong it is to be a Republican (although I didn't learn that lesson for two more years), and how important and beautiful family is.

After her death so much changed (for the better) in my life. I learned how important family is. How my travels around the world are the best way to learn. How to appreciate the arts. And how to find my own way of creativity (this blog).

It is so hard to believe that "Grandma B" has been gone for over seven years. I remember one of my last conversations with her around Christmas of that year, while she was living in an assisted living community. She held my hand with her cold fingers and caressed my arm. She told me how much she loves her family and their visits. How "Mayhew's are always Democrats." And how proud she was of my accomplishments. I still feel her touch to this day and I know her spirit is still in my heart.

I love you "Grandma B."

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

A Guilty Pleasure..Now Different

I am the type of gay man that doesn't follow many of media stereotypes. I am a bad dresser. I don't know much about design. I like sports. One thing that makes me gay is my love of the Golden Girls. Today, the woman that played Sophia Petrillo died. Over the last 10 years she was dealing with dementia. I loved the show and still catch in from time to time on Lifetime. I hope Estelle is with her maker, feeling better and loving the next life. Rest in Peace.











Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Great Travel Stories...Random Thoughts...

Well most of the major airlines have now announced their impending fleet reductions. Northwest announced today. I am booked a business trip to Memphis yesterday for a trip in July. The roundtrip direct, airfare was somewhere around $769.00. I understand price hikes, but you can still do cross country flying for $288.00 roundtrip in Virgin America (or so it said yesterday). I still can't figure out why we aren't charged per mile flown?

Carry-On Crackdown
There is nothing more exciting than to see news everywhere that airlines and TSA are FINALLY going to crack down on carry-on baggage. People have been getting away with bringing far too much stuff on far too full planes. This crackdown should have happened years ago. I still haven't figured out why people need so much crap. I lived in Australia for months and only had a backpack and a small daypack.

Elite Flyers Ruining Travel?
This article had me doing some thinking. I think elite travelers are runing travel. They use their airline egos to act and speak more intelligently than what they really are (I am guilty). They think rules don't apply to them (I have seen this happen). They can be a pain in the butt. What do you think?

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Tough Stuff...Good Stuff...

What a crappy week it has been...Here are the highlights:

1. Tornadoes I was lucky to be in my third Tornado Warning in as many weeks and this one was the scariest. Two weeks ago, I was in York, Nebraska and a tornado caused some minor damage just outside of the city. Last week, Des Moines sirens were blowing and causing headaches. Finally, last night I was near Whittemore, Iowa where tornado sirens were once again blasting. Last night was scary, clouds were moving in many different ways, wall clouds were all over the sky, the lightning was crazy, there wasn't much rain (until much later), and there was an eerie stillness. Plus, the state is flooding and has affected so many, including those I am close to.



2. United Airlines They cut the LAX flight later in the summer, I was expecting it. Then today I got my email notice that I will luckily be safe from any baggage charges when they begin to assess $15 for the first bag and $25 for the second. But I feel sorry for many who will now have the fee. I understand the charges, we need to keep our airlines afloat.




3. Continental I wasn't surprised to see them drop the flight that didn't even get off the ground. Des Moines is one of the cuts made to Cleveland which will lose lots of services, including Omaha which also just started. I love the airline, but can understand the economics of the flight.



4. Triathlon Because of the flooding they have moved my big summer triathlon to a Run-Bike-Run event. I love swimming, and I am pretty good at it too. All that training has gone to waste.






Good Stuff

1. Vacation I am in DESPERATE need for some time off. We have been really busy this summer. On Tuesday, I booked a flight for a trip to Montreal for my buddy Dan's wedding. We were lucky to get the flights for a total of $184.00. We are flying into Burlington, Vermont to save about $300 each. I also used some of my car points and vouchers which will save lots of money.

Monday, June 02, 2008

Scattered Travel Thoughts...

Here is what has been on my mind...

- With the price of gas so high will Greyhound in the US change its image of only catering to those just out of jail, or about ready to go in?

- Yes ticket prices are up, but you can still fly across the country for under $400 round trip on competitive routes.

- Regional travel is fun. I love exploring my home area. Kevin and I took a great trip to a small village in Wisconsin for a wedding, hiking, and fun. It turned out to be a great trip, and our night of camping was hit by a storm (the video will happen later).

- People keep complaining about prices. Airlines are smart enough to know that you can just raise the ticket prices, you have to add other fees.

- Grocery stores in foreign lands can be quite an experience, and less expensive.

- Some countries have fixed currencies, they might be worth a closer look today...Think Belize (but not during a hurricane).

- Will our waistlines start to decrease because of walking more (due to high energy prices).

- I am really interested in taking a cooking class abroad.

- I like the thought of "My Super Sweet 16" on MTV becoming something where the 'teens' head to third world countries. Those spoiled brats drove me nuts, and need a lesson. I feel sorry for the families affected.

Thursday, May 29, 2008

The HD Vids Are Coming...

I spent a fortune, but purchased a new HD video cam to document some of my travels this summer. A lot of what I am going to do will be around the midwest, but I think it will still be a valuable place. We will be going on a trip to Montreal for a wedding this summer and will have lots of video. I am still working on the editing of our trip this weekend. I hope you enjoy the updates!

Monday, May 12, 2008

The Irving Song...

My uncle Tony sang this song about being and Irving at a recent funeral for my great uncle Billy...It made the audience laugh (you might need to know us to understand)...Here are the words:

The Irving Song


What does it mean to be an Irving,
It's a heavy cross to bear,
Seldom wrong ,and usually right ,
Our opinions we will share.

We usually love dogs and children,
In that order it's so true,
I 'm so proud to be an Irving,
There's no other name will do!!

And should you be married to an Irving,
In a little while you'd see,
Everything ,I have said about Irvings,
Is as true as it could be.

And don't ever try and change an Irving,
You couldn't change one if you tried,
There's no need to change an Irving,
We're already perfect ,that is why-y-y,
We're already perfect, that is why!!!

Words and Music by Tony Irving

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Death...

I don't like the cliche, 'Death is part of life.' The last two weeks have been full of death for people I know.

William Clinton Irving

On Thursday morning my father left a message. I knew it was serious since he never leaves a message. My grandfather's oldest brother Billy has passed away overnight of a heart attack. He was 85.

Billy was an interesting person. In his youth he suffered a deep fever that caused his growth to be stunted and his mental capacity to be diminished. He made it thorough the sixth grade and began farming with my great grandfather. When great grandma Lois passed away in 1966, Billy and my great grandfather sold the farm and helped great uncle Dick with farming. Great grandpa died in 1980, Dick passed away in 1990, and Billy moved to a nursing home in Corydon, Iowa in 1998. He loved living there and passed away on May 1, 2008 at the nursing home.

There are three things I remembered about Billy. First, I almost always saw him wearing bib overalls. He was a farmer at heart, always one with the animals and was a master at helping animals needing help. Second, his smile was contagious. I rarely saw him without a big one on his face. And third, he always threaten to cut off our ears. When we were young he would always pull out his knife and pretend to cut off our ears. We would scream, sometimes run away, but in the end laugh because he had a huge smile on his face.

I am happy he is back with my great grandparents, I will miss him.

Michelle Parker

The death of Michelle is still a shock. She passed away today at the age of 52. Michelle was a reporter for a television station here in Des Moines. I remember her most not for the stories of impact but for her personality outside of the station. We were at Shelia Brummer's wedding and she was a dancing machine. I fondly remember the times at Hairy Mary's as well as Sambetti's. She was always willing to laugh, smile, and SO giving. We will miss you Michelle.



Jim Fowler

Growing up there was a huge RV parked across the street for part of the year. It belonged to Jim and Maymie Baughman. They would take the huge RV down south during the winter, and run a RV park. They always had grand kids running around and always willing to say "Hello." Jim was a great neighbor, and I am glad to of known him.

Friday, April 25, 2008

Fathers...

Today I will be attending the funeral of a college friend's father who passed away this week. Another friend lost his father a bit over a week ago. The deaths have made me think a lot about my life. This year has been a huge transition. It started in July when I had hernia surgery, a few days later I was notified my position would be eliminated at work (with another 10 people from my department).

During this time, I knew I wanted to be more earthly and simple. I started a new policy about "THINGS." I now have a one in, one out policy for any gift or purchase. Essentially if I buy something, I must give away something else. So far, it has worked well. I have reduced the amount of 'stuff' in my possession. This simple life has also included not buying so many groceries, using reusable grocery bags, driving less (when possible), and spending more time with my family and friends.

I am so lucky to be in my late 20's and have a strong relationship with all four of my grandparents, my parents, brother, sister-in-law, and nephew. I also have a bunch of friends that support me, and whom I support.

I am such a lucky man.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Simple Giving...

I don't always follow my heart. In college I was introduced to a community of giving. The Catholic school I attended had a strong Peace and Justice community that traveled around the world to improve lives. I would watch how they would go to the middle of Tennessee and help a family who didn't have running water or go to Haiti and help people who were being ignored by a corrupt government. They did something I admire.

When I was out of college, and traveled a bit I knew I needed to participate in my community. Upon my return, I volunteered at the AIDS Project of Central Iowa, donated money to the Matthew Shephard Scholarship program, and helped with the Relay For Life. I loved the work. Then I went to Belize. One of my best friends was working for a foundation to help rejuvenate a third world prison into a rehabilitation facility. They not only 'wired' the site, but also started a program that taught prisoners how to use computers, set up networks, code websites, and ultimately skills they could use outside the walls. Fights, attacks, and murders behind prison walls have decreased significantly. He did something I admire.

I met Mark Thessing when I was in Belize. He works for Hand in Hand Ministries to provide services the government and private business in Belize cannot afford. He helps kids go to school with scholarships, provides the only day care for kids affected by HIV/AIDS, and builds homes for those in desperate need. He is doing something I admire.

My good friends Chad and Michelle have a very comfortable life. They have a nice house, superb family, and a strong community of friends. Each year they give time to many different organizations. They have helped their church raise 1 million pounds of food for the hungry, raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for the American Cancer Society Relay For Life, and spent hours on mission trips to Mexico helping our friends across the border. They do things I admire.

On of the unique radio programs I love on Sirius is Derek and Romaine. Although they have a raunchy show, both have provided so much to the gay community. Romaine was a friend of Matthew Shephard and developed the Angel Action network of peaceful protests to promoted peace and understanding. Derek travels all over the country being a host of PRIDE and other events. They do things I admire.

Today, I want to give more. My heart is full of love and knowledge that I don't share with many others. I have been fortunate to travel on many parts of the globe and see they way the world works. I need to turn this into something more special. In the last two years I have made strides to give more. I have begun a policy of 'One in, One out.' If I receive a gift or buy something I have to give or donate on other item. It has worked well. My closets are empty of unneeded items, and my friends and family love what they have received. I am planning to do more. I am looking forward to future travel, and showing the people in my world what happens thousands of miles away, and how it can enrich their lives.

Giving has been on my brain all day. Last night, when listening to Derek and Romaine a man from Global Colors, Barton, was on to talk about his organization. He started the group after a decade of travel, study, and observation all over the world. He sacrificed his beloved car to get the organization off the ground. The projects aren't huge, but create so much wealth in the communities they help. It reminded me of my time in Belize. On the first trip, I felt so bad for the people that lived there. I was quickly informed that they know nothing different, and love their lives just like we do in America. I occurred to me that the way to help wasn't to feel sorry for them but work to make small improvements in their lives. On my last trip to Belize I went to help a group of nuns build a small home for a family. I didn't meet the family, but asked the project leaders if I could see a finished house. We drove through a ghetto, and found one of the homes. A woman and her small daughter were able to talk to us. You could see their soul through their eyes. There had been much pain, but now they were doing just fine. I felt so good about my small contribution to the community.

I am so thankful I have a family and friends that contribute to the world, in a positive way. I hope my future contributions will create a more beautiful soul for the world.



Saturday, March 01, 2008

Travel Thoughts...

I have come across a few articles of interest. Here are my thoughts...

Coming to America isn't Easy
I have complained about the trials and tribulations of getting through US Customs and Immigration. But, visitors have more issues with being photographed and having to be finger printed. This article is great from the US visitor point of view.

Death On Planes
There have been a rash of highly publicized deaths on flights the last couple of weeks. A woman on an American Airlines flight from Haiti to New York and a co-pilot from England to Cyprus. Well there is not mention in the stories about the effect on other passengers.


Green Flights Mean Cheap Airfares

Virgin tested a biofuel powered airplane this week and there is talk if fuel costs go down with the new types of fuel will bring down the cost of fuels.


Airline Enhancements

United and US Airways have added 'enhancements' to the baggage policy where they charge $25.00 for checking a second bag. This article really shows how airlines are PR machines like every other company to make things that will be bad for customers look better.

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Off to Munich...

Well, Kevin and I are going to Germany on Thursday. But, I will be on business in Omaha Monday to Wednesday this week. I guess there will be a lot of last minute preparation. Anyway, because of both events there will be fewer posts over the next couple of weeks. I am sure we will have a few stories about the traveling, especially since this is Kevin's first trip abroad. Have a great week!

Monday, February 04, 2008

Coming This Month...

I have a few travel stories to tell in February...

1. My friend's Chad and Michelle are going on a mission trip to Mexico, we will check out the benefits of 'Traveling for a Purpose'

2. My buddy John is on his billionth trip to Disney. We will find out why he loves the Happiest Place on Earth so much.

3. Kevin and I are jetting off to Munich Germany for a long winter weekend. We will have lots of highlights.

It is going to be a great February!